What It’s Like To Have Drug Addict Siblings

My favorite memory with them was when I was little, maybe 6 or 7 years old. We were at the beach and I was standing where the waves broke in the sand, I was a little weary about going in by myself. Being that it was around four or five in the evening, the waves were calmer and the sky was a mixture of orange and yellow. Of course my mother was watching me like a hawk from her beach chair, but I was still nervous to go in alone. Then out of nowhere, my brother had one arm and my sister took the other. Before I knew it, I was airborne into the water with them right behind me. We were laughing and fooling around, and I remember feeling so lucky that I had two older siblings who were so cool. I wanted to be just like the both of them.


This was, of course, before the hell that welcomed us in. I use “us” because the worlds belonging to my parents and myself came crashing down alongside my brother and sister’s. My brother is about six years older than me; my sister is about four and a half. We were raised together in the same home, with the same morals, and cared for endlessly and equally by our extremely hard-working parents. I feel like whenever somebody falls to addiction, the first thought of blame goes directly towards the parents, caretakers or whoever raised that person.
People who don’t know us may point the blame towards my parents, but that isn’t the case here. My father worked 20 hour days when we were young, and my mother not only cared for us but she also worked, too. I used to think of them as my own personal superheroes (and I still do). There was not one Christmas where all of our wishes didn’t come true, not one birthday where we didn’t feel like the most important person in the world, and I can’t remember a time where both my mother and father didn’t love me unconditionally.

Anybody who loves an addict knows the frustration of not having anyone to blame all too well, and it’s something I have struggled with from the beginning of this journey. It doesn’t help when you have people surrounding you who do not fully understand the situation at hand. My sister used to be my other half; she completed a void inside me that only a sister could. Though I grew up with her wiping my tears, she has unfortunately become the cause of them for a long time. We shared a room for the first six years of my life, and I often slept in her room with her when we finally got our own rooms. I loved her to no end, and I watched her slip away from me firsthand.

I always looked up to my brother, mostly because he seemed so cool. He was on the football team, won the state championships, and he had an endless amount of friends who were always so sweet to me. Both my brother and sister had amazing personalities that were often contagious, and I truly loved them with all of my heart.

It has taken me eight years to come to the realization that when the person you love becomes an addict, they are no longer the person you love. You can spend your nights trying to understand addiction, and how somebody can transform into a person so horrific right before your own eyes, but there is no understanding to it. I’m not going to go into detail about the extent of pain the both of them have caused both my parents and our surrounding family members, because there is no point. I am not writing this to convince you that they are bad people, because they aren’t. They made choices that are unfortunately the reason they are both addicts to this day. You can transform your lack of understanding into anger by blaming everybody around the addict, but it won’t change anything; and you can trust me on that.

Nobody put the needle into my sister’s arm, and nobody swallowed the pills for my brother. I can’t count the amount of times they have hurt me on both hands, because it well exceeds the amount of fingers I have. You may or may not have heard about the current drug epidemic that is engulfing northern New Jersey, but for me, it has engulfed way more than just my hometown. It seems to me as if people do not truly understand how quickly addiction sets it’s seed in someone, and how quickly it can destroy not only one life but the surrounding lives around an addict. Regardless of whether or not you live in a nice neighborhood with a perfect life, addiction shows no mercy.

For my own mental health, I keep a distance from them until they are ready to be a positive part of my life. I truly believe that they will one day heal and come back, and I will welcome them with open arms. But until then, I can only pray and work towards having the life I’ve always wanted; even if it’s without the people I need by my side. The anger that I have accumulated from ruined birthdays, stolen possessions, and the constant destruction of trust has transformed into a peace of mind that my brother and sister are not who they used to be; and that’s okay.

The next time you read an article about an overdose, or see a news segment about it, please do me a favor and say a prayer for that person and their family. We are in this together, and we will get out of this together. I hope my perspective on a topic that is not widely talked about gives both addicts and the people surrounding them a peace of mind to know that they are not alone.


Marisa Whelan

AUGUST 22, 2014
















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VIC – Bendigo……………………………………………………………. Once a month – Wednesday: 15 July, 19 Aug., 16 Sept.

New Venue: Olinda Centre, 8 Olinda Street, BENDIGO                                                                                 (7pm – 9pm)

Enquiries: Michael 0448 169205 or Head office (02) 4782 9222


VIC – Geelong……………………………………..Wednesday every fortnight: 1,8 &22 July, 5&19 Aug., 2,16 &30 Sept.

NB: Only one week gap between 1st & 8th July.

The Swanston Centre, Cnr Myers & Swanston St, Geelong                                                                           (7pm – 9pm)

Enquiries: Kevin 0487 949745 or Debbie 0412 382 812


VIC – Glen Waverley ……………………………………. Thursday every fortnight: 9&23 July, 6&20 Aug., 3&17 Sept.

MonashLink – Corner of Euneva Ave & O’Sullivans Rd, Glen Waverley                                                      (6pm – 8pm)

Enquiries: Debbie 0412 382 812


VIC – Hawthorn…………………………..….Wednesday every fortnight:   1,15&29 July, 12&26 Aug., 9&23 Sept.

Inner Eastern Community Health Service, 378 Burwood Rd., Hawthorn                                                     (6pm – 8pm)

Enquiries: Debbie 0412 382 812


VIC – Ferntree Gully………………………………………Tuesday every fortnight:   14&28 July, 11&25 Aug., 8&22 Sept.

KNOX Community Health service, 1063 Burwood Hwy, Ferntree Gully VIC                                       (6.30pm – 8.30pm)

Enquiries: Michael 0448 169205


VIC – Footscray……………………………………..Thursdays every fortnight:   2,16&30 July, 13&27 Aug., 10&24 Sept.

Drug Health Services, 3-7 Eleanor Street, FOOTSCRAY                                                                   (6.00pm – 8.00pm)

Enquiries: Michael 0448 169205


VIC – Frankston…………………………………………..Tuesdays every fortnight: 7&21 July, 4&18 Aug., 1,15&29 Sept.

Frankston Hospital, Hastings Road, FRANKSTON                                                                             (6.00pm – 8.00pm)

Enquiries: Debbie 0412 382812














(Unless indicated, the course runs over 2 consecutive weekends)


As soon as course dates/venues are set for 2015/16, they will be displayed on the website:

Contact the facilitator (listed below) OR Head Office for more information. Ph: (02) 47829222



15-16, 29-30 August, 2015


Venue: Inner Eastern Community Health service, 378 Burwood Road., Hawthorn

Enquiries: Michael 0448169205 or Debbie 0412 382812


9.30am – 4.00pm








25th & 26th July, 2015

Hawthorn, VIC

Venue: Inner East Community Health services

378 Burwood Road., Hawthorn VIC

Enquiries: Volunteer Manager (02) 4782 9222 / 0416 212 426

9.30am – 4.30pm


12th & 13th September, 2015


“Becoming Real Course”

A program based on the books: The Velveteen Rabbit, The Road less travelled, Talking to Ducks.

Cost: $50 to FDS members

Venue: TBA

Contact: Head office (02) 4782 9222

10am – 4pm each day




There are different support and treatment options for people recovering from drug and alcohol dependence


These can range from:

  • Withdrawal units (commonly known as detox) either medicated or unmedicated
  • Live-in residential rehabilitation or day programs
  • Community or Outreach Drug and Alcohol Services
  • Self-help meetings such as Narcotics Anonymous or Alcoholics Anonymous, SMART Recovery and GROW Groups
  • Pharma-cotherapies: prescribed medication programs for heroin and other opiate dependence e.g. methadone, buprenorphine (subutex), suboxone
  • Psychologists, Psychotherapists, Social Workers or Counsellors (some can be accessed through the Medicare supported Psychologist Referral Scheme – see your local doctor for more information)



  • Not all treatments work for everyone. If your family member feels one option isn’t working for them, encourage them to try something else or support them to look into a different program or service. A combination of things can be more effective than just relying on one approach.
  • The person needs to acknowledge that they have a problem and are willing to get help. In Australia we generally don’t have options to force a person into treatment unless they are ordered by the courts (some drug-related criminal offences) or Community Services; where there are children at risk


  • Learn about recovery from drug and alcohol dependence and what’s involved.
  • Sorting out drug and alcohol issues always takes time and for most people several goes at it.
  • For some it may be a very up and down journey and the journey may be long and difficult.
  • While they are in rehab, take this time to look after yourself – medical issues, catch up with friends, reconnect with others in the family, work with your own counsellor, psychologist or psychiatrist. Maybe join a support group.
  • Life in rehab is like life in general – there are good days and bad days and can be very emotionally turbulent. There may be days when they sound miserable or unhappy. This is not uncommon; being in a rehab program is a big adjustment as is being without drugs and alcohol.
  • They may be negative about the program, other people in the program, their case worker/counsellor. It is important not to problem solve but listen and provide emotional encouragement rather than solutions. In general it’s best to encourage the person to stay in the program.
  • Understand that the person is not just giving up drugs and alcohol they are re-shaping and reassessing their whole life and who they are.
  • Acknowledge and focus on the positives, the small steps and “successes”.
  • If you have contact with them on family or visit days do not just grill them about the program and their progress. They often want to hear about regular things; what is going on for you and the rest of the family.
  • If a person leaves the program early or is asked to leave, we may need to accept that the time just isn’t right or the program is not the right one for them. Focus on what we can do, which is to keep communicating and maintaining our relationship with our family member.


Defining the Boundary

  • What is the issue, circumstance, area of concern?
  • What do you need to achieve?
  • Examine your motive in wanting to set this boundary. Is it in response to clear thinking about an area of concern or is it an angry response to a set of circumstances?
  • If the person wasn’t using substances would you accept the behaviour? In other words it is important not to treat people differently just because they are substance users.
  • Know the distinction between them as a person and their behaviour. Even ‘I’ statements can be phased in more positive ways on occasion. Note the difference between –
  • ‘I don’t want you living at home when you’re using!’
  • ‘I don’t want you to use drugs in our home!’
  • Is the boundary encouraging them to be responsible for their life, the choices they made, their behaviour and the impact on those around them or is it just treating them like a child?
  • What are the risks of the boundary for everyone involved?
  • Using the ‘using at home’ example, the home and people within it may be safer if there is no use at home but the user may be at more risk if they then use outside the home. There is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ answer. Options and consequences have to be considered and each family may take different approaches. Child safety and protection should always be a serious consideration. The rights of young children need to be the most important element.
  • Set clear consequences for what happens if the boundary is breached. Consequences should be negotiated together including the substance user and may be graded from mild to severe. Consequences need to be appropriate to the breach and everyone needs to be able to live with them. Any action tied up in the consequence needs to come from you – the user may not be ‘made’ to do something.
  • Example:
  • “Because you used at home twice last week I am going to look for alternative living arrangements for you “– rather then “Because you used drugs last week you now have to go into rehab”?
  • How will you ‘measure’ if the boundary has been kept?
  • Is there a time limit on the boundary or does it goes on indefinitely?
  • How often and when will you review the boundary?
  • What flexibly – and it will help if there is some – will be made for changes in circumstances?
  • When and where will the boundary be set and commence?
  • Other family members of an appropriate age who live in the home should be party to the agreement partly to prevent ‘divide and rule’ circumstances. It will be no good setting a boundary where key people are not involved disagree with the boundary.
  • Is the boundary realistic at the moment in the currant circumstances?
  • Can a win/win be achieved? In other words, set the boundary in a way that you, the other family members and the drug user gain something from keeping the boundary. Boundaries set as revenge or to express your anger or to punish the drug user are doomed to failure.
  • When will the boundary commence? Immediately or is there a need for a commencement date?
  • How will you get support from within yourself or from others to be able to set and keep the boundary? How will you deal with harmful feelings and other issues that may arise? Support groups can be very important for supporting you.
  • Remember we live in the real world and not a fantasy one. The choice of a boundary is likely to be a compromise rather then the ideal you might like.
  • Be prepared to reward the drug user for respecting and keeping the boundary. They often don’t get ‘pay offs’ and it will encourage them if they see that keeping the boundary is appreciated.
  • Prepare and rehearse the discussion on setting the boundary. Imagine their likely response. Be prepared for negative reactions. Use ‘I’ statements. Rehearse the conversation going the way you would like it to.
  • Remember your needs are equal to not greater or less then those of others. Your needs are worth respecting and you are entitled to set and have boundaries kept.
  • Take your time and get it right. You can’t change other people but you can change your response to them – which may in turn invite them to change.









1800 888 236

24 hours a day, 7 days a week

Confidential alcohol and drug counselling and referral line.


1800 423 238

24 hours, 7 days a week

Advice and support for people who use ice, their families and health professionals.

Pharmacotherapy, Advocacy, Mediation & Support (PAMS)

1800 443 844

10am–6pm, Monday to Friday

Advice for anyone experiencing trouble with their pharmacotherapy program (Methadone, Suboxone etc.).

Youth Drug and Alcohol Advice (YoDAA) Line

1800 458 685

24 hours a day, 7 days a week

Telephone information and advice for young people and others concerned about them.




Current meeting list: Victorian Southern Area July 2015

Contact your local Area office to notify any changes to published meeting information:


 Al-Anon Family Groups Victorian Southern Area: Office: (03) 9629 8900; E:

 Al-Anon Family Groups Northern Victoria Area: Phone: (03) 5825 1160; E:


 ALBURY, MONDAY, 7.30pm, Glenecho Neighbourhood House, 949 Burrows Rd, Glenroy, Nth Albury

 BAIRNSDALE, THURSDAY, 1.00pm, Presbyterian Church (rear), 159 Nicholson St

 BALACLAVA, FRIDAY, 10.30am, Betty Day Centre, 67 Argyle St, St Kilda

 BALLARAT, TUESDAY “Steps”, 1.00pm, Eastwood Leisure Complex, 20 Eastwood St (behind Safeway)

 BALLARAT, FRIDAY 7pm, Eastwood leisure Complex, 20 Eastwood St (behind Safeway)

 BALWYN, WEDNESDAY 1.00pm, St. Barnabas Anglican Church, 86 Balwyn Road, Balwyn

 w BENDIGO, MONDAY, 8.00pm, DOXA School, 118 Hargreaves St

 BENDIGO, THURSDAY, 12.30pm, Randalls Room, St Andrews’ Uniting Church, 26 Myers St

 BORONIA, TUESDAY 10.30am, Wesleyan Church, 36 Pine Cres

 w BOX HILL MONDAY, 10.30am, Uniting Church (hall at rear), cnr Station & Oxford Sts, Box Hill

 BRIGHTON, WEDNESDAY 8.00pm, Trinity House, 15 Black St

 BROADMEADOWS, FRIDAY 11.00am, St Dominic’s Church (room at rear), 382 Camp Rd

 w CARLTON NORTH, WEDNESDAY “Steps”, 6.00pm, Carlton Library Community Room 1st Floor, 667 Rathdowne St (ring doorbell)

 w CARLTON NORTH FRIDAY “Steps”, 6.00pm, Carlton Library Community Room 1st Floor, 667 Rathdowne St (ring doorbell)

 CARLTON NORTH WEDNESDAY STEPS AFG Wednesday 6pm Carlton Library 667 Rathdown St. Carlton North

 w CARLTON NORTH, SATURDAY, 10.30am, Carlton Library Community Room 1st Floor, 667 Rathdowne St (ring doorbell)

 w CASTLEMAINE, WEDNESDAY 10.30am, Girl Guide Hall, 19 Forest St (cnr Kennedy St)

 CASTLEMAINE ALATEEN IN RECESS JUNE 2014 (WED. 4.30pm Nunan Gallery, 40-42 Campbell St)

 w CHELSEA, TUESDAY 7.30pm, Room 1, “Long Beach Place”, 15 Chelsea Rd

 CHELTENHAM, THURSDAY, 1.00pm, St Matthew’s Anglican Church Hall, cnr Park Rd & Nepean Hwy

 CITY (see Melbourne City)

 COBRAM, WEDNESDAY, 10.30am, Riverside Outreach Centre, 15 William St (opposite police stn)

 COLAC, MONDAY, 11.00am, St Mary’s Church Hall, 3 Gellibrand St

 COLAC 1st and 3rd SATURDAYS 10.30am in the month St Mary’s Church Hall, 3 Gellibrand St

 w COLLINGWOOD, TUESDAY 8.00pm, Collingwood North Yarra Community Health, 154 Sackville St

 CROYDON MONDAY, 10.30am, Uniting Church, 4 Tallent St (cnr Croydon Rd)

 CROYDON FRIDAY, 8.00pm, Uniting Church, 4 Tallent St (cnr Croydon Rd)

 DANDENONG WEDNESDAY, 8.00pm, Dandenong Hospital, David St (seminar rm 2, enter west foyer)

 DANDENONG NORTH, SATURDAY 2.00pm, Hall in St Gerard’s School car park, 71 Gladstone Rd

 DIAMOND CREEK, SUNDAY 2.00pm, Living & Learning Centre, 119 Cowin St

 ECHUCA, THURSDAY, Al-Anon Adult Children, 8.00pm, Echuca Neighbourhood House, 261 High St

 ECHUCA, FRIDAY, 1.00pm, Echuca Neighbourhood House, 261 High St

Current meeting list: Victorian Southern Area July 2015

 ENDEAVOUR HILLS, MONDAY 10.00am, 2 Hanna Dr (cnr Heatherton Rd)

 ESSENDON, TUESDAY Adult Children, 6.30pm, St Theresa’s Church, 848 Lincoln Rd

 ESSENDON, WEDNESDAY, 7.30pm, St Theresa’s Church, 848 Lincoln Rd

 ESSENDON NORTH SATURDAY 8.00pm, Anglican Church Hall, cnr Mt Alexander Rd & Marco Polo St

 FERNTREE GULLY, FRIDAY, 10.30am, Uniting Church, 6 The Avenue

 w FOOTSCRAY, THURSDAY, 8.00pm, Baptist Church Hall, 60 Paisley St

 w FOSTER, WEDNESDAY, 1.00pm, St Joseph’s Catholic Church, O’Connell Rd

 w FRANKSTON, TUESDAY, 1.00pm, Karingal Place, 103 Ashleigh Ave, Karingal

 w FRANKSTON, THURSDAY, 7.30pm, Frankston Uniting Church, 16 High St

 w FRANKSTON ALATEEN, 2nd & 4th THURSDAY/month, 7.30pm, The Green Room, Frankston Uniting Church, 16 High St

 GARDINER THURSDAY Al-Anon Adult Children, 1.00pm, Wesley Hall, St Andrews Uniting Church, 1609 Malvern Rd (cnr Burke Rd)

 GEELONG TUESDAY Steps and Traditions, 7.00pm, Baptist Church, cnr Volum Street & Shannon Ave, Manifold Heights

 GEELONG ALATEEN, 1st & 3rd TUESDAY/month, 7.00pm, Baptist Church, cnr Volum Street & Shannon Ave, Manifold Heights (Closed school hols)

 w GEELONG, WEDNESDAY, 10.30am Tyne Cottage, 163 Yarra St.

 w GEELONG FRIDAY The Steps We Take, 11.30am, Tyne Cottage, 163 Yarra St

 GEELONG SUNDAY Al-Anon Adult Children, 7.00pm, crn Sydney Road and Sydney Parade East Geelong

 GLEN HUNTLY TUESDAY, 7.30pm, St Anthony’s Tennis Club Rooms, next door to St.Anthony’s Church,174 Neerim Rd (cnr Grange Rd)

 w GLENROY, TUESDAY 8.00pm, Glenroy Neighbourhood Learning Centre, 5B Cromwell St

 w GLENROY ALATEEN TUESDAY 8.00pm, Glenroy Neighbourhood Centre, 5B Cromwell St

 GREENSBOROUGH, TUESDAY 8.00pm, St Mary’s, 204 Grimshaw St (room near tennis courts)

 HAMILTON, THURSDAY 8.00pm, Uniting Church Hall, 127 Lonsdale St

 HAMPTON, SUNDAY 11.00am, Castlefield Community Centre, 505 Bluff Rd (cnr South Rd)

 HAWTHORN, WEDNESDAY, 8.15pm, Hawthorn Library, meeting room 2, 584 Glenferrie Rd

 w HEIDELBERG, MONDAY 8.00pm, Scots Church, Burgundy St (near overhead railway)

 HEIDELBERG ALATEEN, MONDAY 8.00pm, Scots Church, Burgundy St (near overhead railway)

 w HORSHAM, WEDNESDAY, 7.30pm, 10 Pynsent St (cnr Urquhart St, enter through car park, via back door)

 IVANHOE AFG, THURSDAY 6.30pm, Ivanhoe Library, Community Room 2, 3rd floor, 255 Upper Heidelberg Rd (no elevator)

 KYABRAM, MONDAY, 10.30am, Salvation Army Hall, 24 Unitt St

 KYABRAM, TUESDAY “Paths To Recovery”, 4.30pm, Salvation Army Hall, 24 Unitt St

 KYABRAM ALATEEN, BI-WEEKLY TUESDAY 6.15pm–7.15pm, Salvation Army Hall, 24 Unitt St (check when the next meeting is: Mim 0407522496)

 LILYDALE (see MOOROOLBARK, WEDNESDAY 1.00pm – change at end May 2014)

 w MAFFRA, SATURDAY 1.30pm, St John’s Parish Centre, 31A Thompson St

 McCRAE, THURSDAY, 1.00pm, St Katherine’s Anglican Church Hall (rear), 15 Bartels St

 MALVERN EAST MONDAY Al-Anon Adult Children, 8.00pm, Ewing Memorial Uniting Church, 59 Burke Rd (cnr Coppin St)

 MALVERN EAST, ALATEEN, MONDAY, 8.00pm, Ewing Memorial Uniting Church, 59 Burke Rd (cnr Coppin St)

 MELBOURNE CITY THURSDAY, 12.30pm, Salvation Army City Temple, L-3 mtg rm 3.05, 73 Bourke St (near Parliament station)

 MELTON SOUTH, FRIDAY, 7.00pm, Melton South Community Centre, 41 Exford Rd

 MILDURA, MONDAY, 7.30pm, Lutheran Church Hall, 105 Olive Ave (cnr Ninth St)

 MILDURA, FRIDAY, 11.00am, Lutheran Church Hall, 105 Olive Ave (cnr Ninth St)

 MITCHAM, TUESDAY 8.00pm, Uniting Church, 559 Whitehorse Rd (cnr Doncaster East Rd; brown room off the foyer)

 MONT ALBERT THURSDAY “Steps” 8.00pm, Carter Hall, John English room, rear of Holy Trinity Church, 177 Union Rd, cnr Montrose St, Surrey Hills

 w MOONEE PONDS, MONDAY, 10.30am, Moonee Ponds Baptist Church, 43 Eglinton St

 w MOONEE PONDS, THURSDAY, 10.30am, Moonee Ponds Baptist Church, 43 Eglinton St

 w MORNINGTON, SATURDAY, 3.00pm, Mornington Community Centre, 9 Albert St (enter via Main St)

 w MOOROOLBARK, WEDNESDAY 1.00pm, Uniting Church, 221 Hull Rd, Mooroolbark

 MORNINGTON SUNDAY “Spiritual Concept”, 10.00am, Bentons Square Community Centre, 145 Bentons Rd

 MOUNT GAMBIER, FRIDAY, 7.30pm, Melaleuca Park School, Boandik Tce (S.A.)

 NEWBOROUGH, TUESDAY, 8.00pm, Uniting Church, 92 Chamberlain Rd

 NEWBOROUGH, WEDNESDAY, 1.00pm, Uniting Church, 92 Chamberlain Rd

 w NORTHCOTE, TUESDAY 10.45am, Jika Jika Community Centre, 1B Plant St (cnr Union St, enter via side door in Plant Street)

 OAKLEIGH, SATURDAY, 8.00pm, Sacred Heart Church (room at rear), 19-21 Johnson St (church faces Warrigal Rd, room at rear)

 OCEAN GROVE THURSDAY, 7.30pm Anglican Church Hall, 31 Draper Street

 PAYNESVILLE, MONDAY, 12.30pm, RSL Hall, 57 Main St (rear entrance)

 PORTLAND, THURSDAY 10.00am, Scots Presbyterian Church, Tyers St

 w RINGWOOD EAST, MONDAY (Al-Anon Adult Children), 8.00pm, Maroondah Social Health Centre, 75 Patterson St (opposite Ringwood East stn)

 SAN REMO, FRIDAY, 7.30pm, St Augustine’s Church, Marine Pde

 SHEPPARTON, TUESDAY, 7.00pm, St Augustine’s Church Hall, 95 Orr St

 SHEPPARTON, FRIDAY, 10.30am, Church of Christ Hall, 115 Nixon St (cnr Corio St)

 SOUTH YARRA, SUNDAY, 7.00pm, St Joseph’s Church Hall, 30 Fitzgerald St

 SPRINGVALE, FRIDAY 10.30am, Church of Christ Hall, 6 Windsor Ave (cnr Buckingham Ave, enter car park)

 ST ALBANS, SATURDAY 8.00pm, Sacred Heart Primary School (staff room), 4 Winifred St

 ST KILDA, SATURDAY, 2.00pm, Betty Day Centre, 67 Argyle St (Steps meeting 1st Sat./month)

 ST KILDA, FRIDAY, 8.00pm, St Kilda Library meeting room, 150 Carlisle Street, St Kilda

 SUNSHINE, WEDNESDAY 10.30am, Conference Room (next to Uniting Church), 28 Withers St

 w TRARALGON, MONDAY, 1.30pm, Kath Teychenne Centre, 11-13 Breed St

 WANGARATTA, TUESDAY, 1.30pm, Pangerang Community House. 38 Ovens St

 WARRNAMBOOL MONDAY Steps & Traditions, 7.30pm, St Joseph’s Church meeting room, 69 Kepler St (off Raglan Pde, opposite Kentucky Fried Chicken outlet)

 w WARRNAMBOOL, WEDNESDAY, 12.30pm, St Joseph’s Church meeting room, 69 Kepler St (off Raglan Pde, opposite Kentucky Fried Chicken outlet)

 w WARRNAMBOOL, THURSDAY, 8.00pm, St Joseph’s Church meeting room, 69 Kepler St (off Raglan Pde, opposite Kentucky Fried Chicken outlet)

 WERRIBEE, TUESDAY, 5.00pm, Wyndham Community Health Centre, 117-129 Warringa Cresc (near Derrimut Rd cnr), Hoppers Crossing (Not open public holidays)

 WILLIAMSTOWN, SATURDAY, 2.00pm, St Andrews Church Hall, 87 Cecil St

 w WONTHAGGI, FRIDAY, 10.30am, St George’s Anglican Church hall, 5 Hagelthorn St (enter from

McBride Ave)

 WOORI YALLOCK, WEDNESDAY, 7.30pm, Presbyterian Church, 1363 Healesville-Koo-Wee-Rup Rd

w indicates Wheelchair Access




PRAHRAN     Tuesday        7.00pm

Cnr Grattan & Greville Streets

Contact: Jan 0432 327 652




Addiction Specialists Doctors


  • At First Step our clinicians specialise in addiction and are qualified, experienced and competent in both addiction and mental health
  • We not only diagnose and treat the dependence but diagnose and treat the mental health issues
  • The combination of this integrated team of clinicians who specialise in addiction and our all-encompassing services means that every aspect of an individual’s recovery can be supported and provided in one location

That means patients are more likely to move from the chaos of addiction and into safe productive lives and is what sets First Step apart from other addiction treatment programs



42 Carlisle Street

St Kilda 3182

P : +61 3 9537 3177

F : +61 3 9537 0133




Detoxification Clinics

There has been over the past 10 years a dramatic shift in policy resulting in the reallocation of resources from inpatient to home based withdrawal programs. As a result there has been a significant loss of beds and the closure of a large number of facilities.

Some clinics only offer home based detoxification; if have little or no support and have played a bit to hard of late, a medical detox might be the way to go.

Salvation Army Anchorage:

81 Victoria cres Abbotsford 9495 6811

Royal Women’s Hospital Chemical Dependency Unit

9344 2386

Daswest, Medical Withdrawal Service

Western Hospital, 3-7 Eleanor Street FOOTSCRAY 3011

Phone: (03) 8345 6682

Fax: (03) 8345 6027 click here for website

Salvation Army Home-Based Withdrawal

12 Chapel Street ST KILDA 3182

Phone: (03) 9521 2770

Fax: (03) 9521 1426 click here for website

Windana Society

Drug Withdrawal Unit

88 Alma Road ST KILDA EAST 3183

Phone: (03) 9529 7955

Fax: (03) 9521 3581

UnitingCare Moreland Hall

Withdrawal Services – Residential Drug Withdrawal Unit

26 Jessie Street Coburg 3058

Phone: (03) 9386 2876

Fax: (03) 9383 6705 click here for website

DePaul St Vincent’s Hospital

Community Residential Drug & Alcohol Withdrawal Unit

Address: 38 Fitzroy Street, FITZROY 3065

Phone: (03) 9288 2624

Fax: (03) 9288 2623 click here for website


South East Alcohol & Drug Services (SEADS)

Drug Withdrawal Unit

229 Thomas Street DANDENONG 3175

Phone: (03) 8792 2330

Fax: (03) 8792 2331 click here for website

For more information on detoxification clinics ring- Direct Line 1800 888 236, open 7 days 24 Hours. Counsellors can provide: Immediate counselling and support, including crisis intervention. Support in dealing with the impact of drugs and assistance in developing strategies to deal with alcohol or drug problems.




Private Drug & Alcohol Detox Units

Private detoxification facilities cost and arm and a leg. No Medicare cards accepted here, only private cover.

Warburton Clinic – Health Scope – Alcohol & Drug Clinic

Donna Buang Road Warburton Phone: 59-547- 522

Pinelodge Clinic

1480 Heatherton Road Dandenong Phone : 9794- 5953

Epworth Hospital – Drug And Alcohol Unit

34 Erin Street Richmond Phone: 9426-6331

Vaucluse Hospital –

82 Moreland Road Brunswick Phone: 9383-1155





Home Based Detox – Withdrawal

Home-based withdrawal involves supporting an individual through withdrawal from dependent drugs and alcohol use in their own home or other safe accommodation. Community nurses or doctors visit your home to provide medical care, support and supervision to the client and their family (that’s if you have any left) usually on a daily basis throughout the home-based withdrawal.

Home-based withdrawal entails having a safe, drug-free environment, with a supportive family or other responsible friend (not your best mate who you use with) to be involved in care and supervision.

Home-based withdrawal is much safer than trying to manage drug withdrawal alone; it can be extremely dangerous and confronting, or if you feel that a clinic may be to confronting. Home-based withdrawal is not for everyone if you feel that you need a clinic and the extra supports that they offer dig your heels in especially if it is your first time. After the home-based withdrawal is completed, the individual is linked to other support networks such as counselling or drug and alcohol workers within their community and community-based services for ongoing support


Salvation Army Bridge Centre

Home-Based Withdrawal

12 Chapel Street ST KILDA

Phone: (03) 9521 2770

Fax: (03) 9521 1426


Alcohol & Drug Program

Drug Withdrawal Team

228 Pakington Street


Phone: (03) 5222 1700

Fax: (03) 5222 2270


Barwon South West Youth Alliance

12-14 Halstead Place


Phone: (03) 5244 7372

Fax: (03) 5221 1442


DasWest, Home-Based Withdrawal Service

Western Hospital

3-7 Eleanor Street FOOTSCRAY

Phone: (03) 8345 6682

Fax: (03) 8345 6027


Women & Children’s Drug & Alcohol Service

Home-Based Drug Withdrawal Service

129 Durham Road SUNSHINE

Phone: (03) 9311 3099

Fax: (03) 9311 2016


Peninsula Drug & Alcohol Program

Outpatient & Home Withdrawal Service

Hastings Road FRANKSTON

Phone: (03) 9784 8100

Fax: (03) 9784 8112


Access Alcohol & Other Drug Services

Home-Based & Outpatient Drug Withdrawal

Address: 1st Floor, Upton House,

Thames Street BOX HILL

Phone: (03) 9895 3348

Fax: (03) 9895 3313


South East Alcohol & Drug Services

Home-Based Withdrawal Programs

Address: Level 2, 229 Thomas Street


Phone: (03) 8792 2330

Fax: (03) 8792 2331


Uniting Care Moreland Hall

Home-Based Withdrawal Program

Address: 26 Jessie Street MORELAND

Phone: (03) 9386 2876

Fax: (03) 9383 6705


Western Region Alcohol & Drug Centre

Youth Home-Based Withdrawal

Address: 26 Fairy Street WARRNAMBOOL

Phone: (03) 5560 3222

Fax: (03) 5560 3200


Youth Substance Abuse Service

Home-Based Withdrawal Support Service

Address: 953 Whitehorse Road


Phone: (03) 9890 7855

Fax: (03) 9898 0692


Youth Substance Abuse Service

Home-Based Withdrawal Support Service

Address: 20 Young Street


Phone: (03) 9770 5622

Fax: (03) 9770 5688


Address: 165 Smith Street


Phone: (03) 9417 3431

Fax: (03) 9417 3439